It's Always Self-Love Time with Mavis Elias

Welcome to BLOG!

Hi Precious...

It is my hope that if you are going through life wounded and in desperate need of healing, that you will find it right here. I have gone through obstacles, fell off mountains and have been hurt. I have journeyed through life blogging my experiences.

I hope you can cry with me, laugh with me and find restoration with me. 

If you have been searching for  means out, a voice to explain what is hurting on the inside and a means to get out of the rut. You have found the right place. 

What do I write about?





My blog has become about self-discovery. Journeying towards my BEST self, and enjoying the way there!

My hope is that this blog touches lives and that someone can relate to where I have been, where I am and where I am going. 

Old Blog

I have been blogging since about the year 2013. I have since outgrown the blog and have gone on a new blogging journey. Hence this new blog. 

However, if you want to read my old material, feel free to do so!


About Me

Well, describing myself must be the hardest thing yet! 

So I decided to put up a sort of timeline.

I am working on this, lol.

Contact Me

If you want to get in touch with me, you are welcome to do so. 

I appreciate feedback, and perhaps we can chat about writing ideas. 


Videos I Love!

October 29, 2019

Lately, I have had a fascination with discovering books. There was a time I could not stomach self-help books, because I deemed them fickle. Lo and behold, I have since grown out of my obtuse thinking and have come to understand the value in learning from those that have walked the path before me. As of late, I have taken to uncovering African history and paid a lot more attention to African American history. This in an attemp...

September 25, 2019

The thing about evolving and becoming a better version of yourself is that there’s always room for improvement. We are now in an age where one cannot plead ignorance to be the basis to which you hold an opinion. Technology is fast evolving and information is now at our fingertips. We find that all it takes is curiosity and google becomes your best friend.

For generations the concept of – it is just who I am – was deemed accepta...

September 3, 2019

When celebrating, there is a sense of nostalgia, reminiscing on what was and in the same breath, an excitement of what is to come. When looking at thirty years, which marks a pearl anniversary, there is a bitter sweet moment, where one sighs.

At Kapia Optics that sigh holds a great amount of memories in it. That sigh holds relief, relief at how far you have come. That sigh holds hidden struggles, struggles not many know of. Th...

April 25, 2019

The me I am vs the me I want to be

Have you ever sat and thought to yourself, I will do enough to get me by, not an effort above anything, in as long as it is done. You go about life doing the bare minimum, you tick off the check boxes of what is expected of you, but that is where it ends. You are not aiming for perfection, nor would you do well with failure. No, you simply want to do enough to survive. Enough to get by and eno...

April 8, 2019

Values and morals are relative to an individual. Every time a choice is made repeatedly it sets the precedent and inevitably becomes the standard. The difference between values and morals is simply from where they stem, with the former being a personal standard and the latter a societal standard. Societal standards are generally easy to abide by because they are defined by social etiquette, whereas where we generally falter is...